Life with the 3 M's
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Daughters and Dogs
I was looking in the mirror today and realised the shades of gray coming out in my beard,at my feet was our oldGolden retriever “Puppy” , her face turned a soft white with age ,laying down beside me , flapping her tail while laying down as only old dogs can do, as I tell her of my plans for today . I realised the love Puppy has brought into our lives at the same time I realised what she has taught the 3 M’s. Dogs can teach daughters a lot if we teach them to listen with thier heart , mind and soul.Daughters, as very little girls, need to internalize the deepest knowledge of loyalty, faith, honor, respect, and of course, love. Dads may attempt to teach these virtues, but Puppy lives it. Every day.
Puppy taught my daughters the wisdom of living inthe moment. Even the least important moment is important enough.
Hearing the family car pulling into the driveway is important , exciting and a reason to investigate even if it is just for a hug, kiss and hello.
Waiting at the door is important...awarm hug and hello do wonders for everyone.
Going for walk , strolling ....lolli-gagging is good for the soul , sometimes
Feeling the slurp of cool water is important.
Stretching legs and toes is important.
Feeling the rush of the wind from the car window is important.
Getting a great big hug is important.
Puppy taught my daughters the truth of what is not particularly important. Morning breath. A bad hair day. Gossip.
Puppy taught my daughters to run, play, jump, frolic. Dogs have a magical way of nudging even our teenaged daughters into some agreeable action.
Puppy taught my daughters the beauty of looking into big, round eyes. The confidence of gently bathing and brushing magnificent hair. The patience of training. And the respect of things that are living.
Puppy taught my daughters to listen to a creature who has nothing to say. To speak her heart to ears that absorb her every word. To fear not solitude.
Puppy taught my daughters to be silly. To pour out saved-up wishes. To love simply, yet completely. To take delight in this love.
Puppy is teaching my daughters about mortality. And immortality. Dogs let our daughters know that man alone contemplates his mortality… animals who are ready to go show no sign of doubt. Puppy is offering my daughters the greatest hope that we will always live in the memories of those we leave on this earth.
Puppy has taught my daughters that love often times needs no logic. The sweetest attraction is sometimes the strangest!
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Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Explaining History from an Islanders point of view
Living and growing up on a pirate island is amazing and challenging but with one daughter graduating from Middle school and her team being called the Buccaneers and my second Daughter being slightly banged up , we have had a chance to review many stories and dreams I told her as she was growing up ...one of them was my belief that sailors are blessed by God , loved by Jesus and smiled upon by the angels.
With Her quick mind and sharper wit she layed out a trap for me to fall into by mentioning that Pirates are also sailors ,but being ...older no more experienced I asked her to close her eyes and listen to my story , my version of history and my thoughts on Pirates .....
Just Imagine one night going out with your buddies , you are having dinner , laughing,
talking , singing songs and drinking a bit ,just enjoying your life with your
friends ,bragging about your girlfriend and your dreams ….and then someone
slips you a mickey and off to sleep you
go……Imagine the heart ache when you wake up on a merchant ship… a big huge boat….. a ocean going vessal ……not
a row boat but a functioning working 7
days a week 24 hours a day boat crammed with
all sorts of stuff , other people as confused as you and
a select group of people you don’t know …..This select group of people won’t let you off the boat or take you back
home…..They demand you to work or be Flogged…demand you to do unnatural things like climbing ropes on a
swinging and swaying mast or be flogged…..They
tell you ,you will be home in 2 to 5
years …..if you live …..They demand
absolute obedience and use terms and words you have never heard before nor
fully understand ….They give you strange
and awful food , They give you limited sleeping arrangements and offer you
no recourse but to sign papers saying you will work for food and maybe a small
monthly allotment if you survive
and get home .You have been just been “IMPRESSED”.
With Her quick mind and sharper wit she layed out a trap for me to fall into by mentioning that Pirates are also sailors ,but being ...older no more experienced I asked her to close her eyes and listen to my story , my version of history and my thoughts on Pirates .....
Imagine the dispare for these young men ,So you sign these papers
pledging loyalty ,fidelity and your life to these unknown select group
of people.You slowly and unwillingly learn the boat and the
ways of a sailor. [England as well as many other nations in the late 1700’s and
early 1800’s had 45 % of its sailors as sign ons ie: experienced sailors with
no land based homes or families {formally impressed sailors }, 27% were
impressed sailors ie as mentioned above …and now for the kicker 28% were
volunteers…{that means they were impressed but told they would get a bonus if they signed the papers quickly with
no problems often at the point of a knife ..these guys were very "impressed "with thier recruiters ….lol….}.Slowly
you begin to master several skills and forge bonds with others like yourself
..plucked also from thier mother’s breasts ….by the Select few
and also beaten if they don’t do as the select few say….these bonds forged with strangers grow stronger
daily by working side by side with your new also “Impressed “friends .You have
created a good impression not to be flogged.
Late at night , the older sailors tell you stories about how
they have no home to go back too , families lost or scattered and about life on the high seas and the
different places they have been. In their eyes you still see a glimmer sadness but a flicker of pride
or hope if only given the chance , would they change the course of their lives………..They also whisper stories of men unlike
them … free to choose their lives , their own boats , free to choose their own
captains , master at arms , Quatermaster ,and First mate and if these elected officers “screw up” they
get voted out of the picture and off the boat …..They vote on where to go , who
to see and what to do …they get real profit sharing ….they have real vested
interested in the success of the voyage ….they get workmans comp [if they get
hurt they get a pay out ]…..free health care …… free dental…life insurance pay out for thier wives .They develop their
own set of rules for each trip for all to abide by …..they have formed a loose
confederacy or union of men or even better a
breathen of friends …….real
democracy in action .
One day while sailing the select few yell put more sail on….. and keep looking
behind them at the two or three small ships behind them . Slowly the smaller
boats get closer and closer and the select few get more and
more nervious …..they understand what is happening and what will happen….The
loan sharks[the guys from Holland who call themselves the East India trading company[very
similar to Italian import/export companies
] or the boys at Lloyds bar and
grill in London who run the insurance {imagine someone insuring cargo for
amounts of currency that are currently unknown , the total quanity of product unknown ,the total quality of product is unknown and the delivery is to be determined at a later date weather permitting if the
person handling the money lives long enough} ] Both of those groups loaned the select
few the money for this voyage……and those guys will not forgive them if they loose the cargo [the VIG on a ship
and cargo was fantastic 1000% or more ]and they” the loan sharks “will go after
the select fews families ….The select few don’t want to die, get hurt or mained ….ie: better
to save the ship or partial cargo and plan on a future voyage …then to die and loose it all .
As the small boats come along side ,weapons are being passed
out to you and your friends to defend the select fews ship…..hummm…..fight
for select few you don’t know or like , for a cargo that means nothing to you
,possibly get hurt for someone who beats you ,possibly die for someone who kidnapped
you …hummm …… ……..as the smaller boats
come along side they unfurl the skull and cross bones
…stating “stand and deliver ,no
mercy no quarter “ meaning stop the boat now and we the free democratic sailors on the
smaller ships will give you directions home or to the nearest port check your supplies as you may
be lost wondering about in a big ocean and in return we will help you
settle your cargo ie lighten your load so you can get home faster
to see your loved ones and this cargo you have given us for directions and safe passage , we will sell
it for you locally to save you time ,
shipping costs and to releave you of the huge capital gains
and import tax burden that will be placed upon you , on a side note : you get to live another day [also remember the
free democratic sailors don’t want to
get hurt , die or sustain injury either]
…it is a win win solution
for everyone ……. or you the select few
can fire a shot and the free democratic
sailors trying to assit you and offer you help out on the big ocean will put
you all to the sword because you have been impolite by not stopping and saying hello ,you have been mean by
making the free democratic sailors sweat in the heat and not waving back or saying hello , you have thrown a temper tantrum by firing a shot
perhaps and given those poor democraticly elected sailors a headache by the noise.
Hopefully you will stop ...While cargo is being transferred to the smaller boats
everyone is freely given the option of listening to the recruiters sales pitch for
the Christian non demoninational democraticsea faring coalition of men who promise you …..
better working hours , better
food ,workmans comp and profit sharing ….. or remaining with the Select Fews Boat and
maybe getting paid [remember the cargo just left with the Christian brotherhood
of democratic seafarers and your hopes
of collecting a small daily wage after they [the select few]deducted
out for loss of cargo , your food bill ,clothes ,blankets , gloves
,and rain gear are now gone , you are now officially qualified as a debtor and
liable to be thrown into debtors prison
upon return home or forced to work this debt off.]
Tough choices for these young men torn from their mothers
bossum …hmmmm…..freedom ,democracy and profit sharing …………..or………….. possible beatings , debtors
prison and no guarrentee of getting paid …..ummmmm!!!!!!! what would you do???
Start a revolution [as we did in Texas ], establish your own Country [as we did in Texas ], develope your own system of Seafaring managment for Global politics [as we did in Texas and on Galveston island ]
Start a revolution [as we did in Texas ], establish your own Country [as we did in Texas ], develope your own system of Seafaring managment for Global politics [as we did in Texas and on Galveston island ]
Nest week : pleasure boating, Jesus and pirates !
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Our commericial for Mexico [edited english version]
Here is a version of our commericial for Mexico with English script for non spanish speakers
http://youtu.be/y37UnHktnBY
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Accepted , rejected and objective
Accepted ,
rejected and objective
My
youngest Maddy daughter was filling out her application for O’Connell Prep School ,and among all the items
listed for information gathering and questions asked were the following
questions which gave pause for thought ,not wanting to repeat the traditional
items of sports , school activities and groups and clubs it provided a chance
for her and myself to reflect on ourselves as we really saw ourselves [using
additional sheets paper if required ].So we each filled out our own versions of
form together .Below are several points that caused us to both rethink in a nontraditional way thoughts and our views of ourselves.
Describe yourself : [Not wanting her to
do the …I am a good softball player and team leader which was already listed
under the sports line , I thought about myself and came up with the following
that fits in the 8 lines of space available]
I
am unapproachably friendly. I am deliriously sane. I am normally crazy. I am
rapturously unhappy. I am joyously angst-ridden. I am trendily outdated. I am
consciously carefree. I am drunkenly devoted to sobriety. No. I am soberly
committed to drunkenness. I am educated, but not
snooty; a home-lover, but not a home-body. I am funny, but not a comedienne. I am
religious, but not pious. I am set in my ways, but not set in concrete. I am confident,
but not obnoxious. I am a bit romantic, but not sappy. I am smart, but not smart-alecky.
I am witty, but not at wit's end. I am reliable;
but not predictable.
What
are your assets and liabilities? [
Again not wanting her to list team
leader , captain of teams etc, but wanting her
to understand who she really is and give a insight into who her father is , I came up with the following ]
I’m very creative both intellectually and
artistically, but can't spell and often use inappropriate, but similarly
sounding words to complete thoughts that might otherwise be profound.
What do you enjoy doing? [Again not
wanting to list activites that are already described from the many pages in the form with addition information
listed on extra pages ,I looked for an answer that fits in the 4 lines provided
on the application]
I Love to laugh all the time, I enjoy laughing at the absurd, I enjoy laughing at my thoughts sparked by something completely unrelated, I enjoy laugh at texts that, sent to someone with a shadier disposition, might not be so funny, and I laugh at myself for laughing, among other things.
I Love to laugh all the time, I enjoy laughing at the absurd, I enjoy laughing at my thoughts sparked by something completely unrelated, I enjoy laugh at texts that, sent to someone with a shadier disposition, might not be so funny, and I laugh at myself for laughing, among other things.
After smiling and reviewing her answers as
compared to mine , we together sign, folded and placed a stamp and mailed out
the application [s]…….Did I ever tell you I am also very forgetfull , I tend to forget minor details until I don't,
and then I forget to forget them again. I
also enjoy hearing stories again for the first time….and this story will be
told over and over again in my house thru
the years as the time …..my youngest M got
accepted in O’Connell Prep school and her father didn’t …..LOL…..you see when I
sealed the envelope I enclosed both her copy and my copy of the application we
were filling out….30 some years after
being accepted , graduating and now being rejected ,I can’t help but smile and
think life is still good on my island
and at www.amigomovil.net .
Congratulations to my eldest Daughter and to all seniors from the STEM program at Ball High Prep academy and thanks to Dr Ricks for a job well done . Molly good luck in the future and in farmacy or is
it Pharmacy [ I don’t know I forget] school [ you already knew I couldn’t spell…lol…
]
Monday, March 19, 2012
Thoughts on Creativity
Creativity By Mike Nixon
Can creativity be
created? I personally find that
creativity is a fickle mistress. When
moments of creativity hit, they can be motivating and uplifting. In the sometimes long droughts between truly
inspired thought, it seems that there has never been an original idea. But, can innovation and ingenuity bedeveloped to the point that they are “on call” when the need arises?
Merriam
-Webster describes creativity as “the skill and imagination to create new
things”. Skill – I like that – a skill
is something that can be learned and developed.
But the second part of this definition is more problematic. Imagination is that spark of genius that we
are born with, something innately within us that singularly defines us and
brands us as unique in this world.
While this
psuedo-definition of imagination may be somewhat true, on further thought, it
may be incomplete at best. I wonder that
skill and imagination are not so easily divorced as would appear on the
surface. Malcomb Gladwell is one of my favourite
authors. I believe he would take a
different perspective on this topic. In
his books, Blink and again, peripherally, in Outliers, Mr. Gladwell would have
us look at common (and not so common) occurrences differently. Is our intuition (Blink) and our “overnight
success” (Outliers) a God-given gift or talent bestowed at birth or are they
more closely related to proficiency that can be developed? It think the latter.
Let me give an
example. My wife's birthday was
approaching. As I get older, I am no
longer satisfied buying the perfunctory flowers, perfume or other worn-out
cliches of a present. I wanted something
creative to show my appreciation of her value in my life. I wanted to celebrate the time that Anne and
I fell in love (I know, sappy, but
true.) In essence, I wanted to be
creative. But, what to buy or build or
do? One night, I noticed that when she
bored of my excessive automotive how-to's and Science Channel documentaries,
she retreated to her laptop and a quick game of Classic Ms. Pac Man. You see, when we were first dating, we would
often spend time by frequenting that late 70's hangout – the Video Arcade.
So the seminal
idea was born. I would find a vintage
Pac Man arcade game and present it to her as a present. But – you know what? - those things are big. Where is it going to fit into our living room
without it looking out of place like a fraternity dorm room. (I say that because I had an Asteroids Arcade
in my room...) No, that definitely
wouldn't work. Maybe the “cocktail
table” version of the arcade was a better solution. Next revelation – those things are expensive.
Maybe I can build
one... There are myriad options and
examples on the internet these days. I
secured plans and spent hours looking at examples. I finally determined that I would not have
the time/space/perseverance to complete this task. But, the idea would not go away. The cocktail table was a vast improvement but
would still be covered by a tablecloth in the corner of the living room. This would prevent the occasional spontaneous
play that I wanted to encourage.
Something different would have to be “created”. I wanted a classic arcade play but in a
fixture that was on display for the world to see (I'm dramatic that way.) I wanted it to be art.
Now, you see, one
thing that I am not is an artist. I am
an engineer through and through. I act
like an engineer. I talk like an
engineer. And, most importantly, I think
like an engineer. When I realized it was
art that was the goal, I knew I was not the right man for the job. So I turned to a real artist, John V. Weber. Anne has wanted one of John's pieces in our
home for some time. So I “commissioned”
John to build the artwork that would hold my engineering. You see I have a secret weapon – John is also
my daughter's father-in-law. So art with
a purpose. And this is the metaphor for
which I was searching.
So the terms, art
and skill are very much relative. John's
art has a skill that is unsurpassed.
Like a pianist or a singer, his art is practised each day until it is
honed to a fine edge. Similarly, my
skill has a certain level of artistic quality – the layout of wire, the
location of the controls and the operation of the mechanics. All developed from the repetitive use and
tutelage of engineers more practised than myself.
So, creativity has
come to mean the development of ideas and practices to a level that seems
natural and spontaneous. What Mr.
Gladwell would describe as conforming to the “10,000 hour rule”. Some, it seems, get this right and call it
“focus”. Others, fail miserably with
obvious me-too products incorporating little thought or effort. I like to believe that we can all insert some
creativity into our world based on our own 10,000 hours of experience. It is with this insight and challenge that we
approach the development of all of our projects at Amigo Movil.
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